I have exactly the same issue with a new mbp retina 15" with Parallels 8 and OSX 10.9 , when I work with an external 23" display.
If I maximize the window in the external display it works correctly some times, but if I maximize in mbp screen parallels always crashes and all OSX applications restart including finder.
Sometimes when Parallels crashes show me the message that there is and old instance of Parallels running.
I have reinstalled OSX, I have tried to upgrade to PD 9 and neither works, I get the same error again and again.
Any solution?
Last edited: Feb 25, 2014