all good now
thanks for the imput....
I trashed the application(older version), and re-installed the new build rc 1884. I found out the problem I had was starting the program with the parallels icon still on my desktop and dock. It still shut down, and restarted.
I trashed both icons, and started the application from the icon in the new applications file. It works fine.., moved that icon to dock.., still works fine!!
thanks!