If I'm understanding your question correctly, you want to know how RAM is allocated between the Host and Guest o/s's?
If so, the RAM is not allocated to the guest until you actually start the VM. As a general rule, NEVER allocate more than half of your physical memory to a VM and only a 1/4 if you plan on opening more than one VM at a time. Any more than that could possibly cause errors in the Host o/s and if it freezes, so goes the VM..
Mike