This is sooo frustrating... I use Parallels maybe once every 2 months....but the auto start feature requires that I wait for it to load and consumes RAM, slows down my MAC while it is loading.... You guys know this story... I have decided that until there is a disable auto start feature that we can set and remove I will NOT upgrade again... It would be great if Parallels's developers let us know when they will build this simple code into their software as I really want to upgrade now.... Not happy about this at all...