when trying to add packages debian wont authenticate me, i tried root and parallels password , neither work ?
Are you speaking about Debian installed as a virtual appliance? If yes, login as parallels user and when installing packages enter password that you submitted on the very first login into this system.
Ok, I see. In our current appliance version "parallels" user is not added into admins in policykit :-( So I suggest you to set up root password and use it for authentication as Administrator. For this do in terminal: sudo passwd First it will require you to enter your current password of "parallels" user: [sudo] password for parallels: and then new password for root: Enter new UNIX password: Retype new UNIX password: - specify good complex password. After that when Debian's GUI asks you to authenticate as Administrator - enter root's password.